Traditional Chinese Weddings
In anicient China, Traditional Chinese Weddings were often arranged by the parents.
When the groom’s parents found a potential daughter-in-law, they will hire a matchmaker (媒人 mei ren), a spokeswoman, who will communicate their wish to the potential bride’s family.
The matchmaker is usually an elderly woman who acts as midwives or spokeswoman for the groom’s family.
There are also times where the marriage have been arranged when both the bride and groom were very young (or not even born).
There are many customary rituals to follow. The three venerable
texts were considered necessary elements of a Traditional Chinese marriage. They are :
These were condensed into the Three Letters and Six Etiquettes, also known as the Three Covenants and the Six Rites, (三书六礼 San Shu Liu Li).
The following are further pages on Traditional Chinese Weddings :
- Three Letters and Six Etiquettes (三书六礼 San Shu Liu Li)
- Traditional Chinese Weddings – Betrothal Ceremony – (过大礼 Guo Da Li)
- Wedding Preparations – Setting up the Bridal Bed (安床 An Chuang)
- Wedding Preparations – Hair Combing Ceremony (上头 Shang Tou)
- The Wedding Day
- Post Wedding Activities – The Bridal Home Visit (三朝回门 San Zhao Hui Men)
- Double Happiness (囍)
- Further Readings From Amazon.com
- Back to Weddings page